I’m very upset, I don’t know what to do

I’m very upset, I don’t know what to do. I’ve been friends with a guy for many years, our guys were initially against it, and I started secretly communicating until now (we hardly see each other). He says many times that he wants to come and talk to my parents, but I don’t agree, now I’ll tell you what the reason is, because there are many things that I don’t like about him, one of which limits me in terms of work. I really wanted to work, but it all came out of my nose. And now that I have once again found a job that can be a great progress in my life, he says you won’t go until I find out what, where and similar baseless things. I know a person offering a job. Despite the fact that I explain, it still moves forward. Now the question is what should I do, I’m afraid that my parents won’t understand why I communicated and kept secret for a long time, I’m at a dead end, I don’t advise, I even want to break up, but there is fear.